Domestic violence is, unfortunately, very common. The victims of it typically hide their injuries from loved ones to protect their abusers. Whether you live with an abusive person, are concerned one of your loved ones does, or just want to protect your family from potential abusers in the future, this post is for you. Learning about the most effective ways to protect yourself from an abuser is perhaps the best way to keep yourself and your loved ones safe. When you know what the signs of abuse are, you can act more quickly. Here are a few tips you can use to protect yourself and the people you care about.

Wrongful Accusations

Something you should know is that just because one person accuses another of domestic violence, that does not for a second mean there is truth to their claims. Wrongful accusations have skyrocketed in recent years. If you have been accused, find an expert who specializes in offering help in domestic violence cases, so you can walk away from court with an exoneration. Make sure the lawyer you hire is knowledgeable, experienced, and has a proven track record of courtroom success.

Establish Safety Plans

Assuming you already live with an abuser, the first thing you should do is establish a safety plan. You won’t be able to escape from them unless you carefully think your exit through. Escaping from an abuser isn’t easy because if they catch you trying to leave, the chances are they will physically stop you, or manipulate you into staying. Come up with safety plans for your children or any people in your care, too. Help any loved ones suffering from domestic abuse to come up with their own safety plans as well.

Record Instances of Abuse

If you or a loved one is being abused, instances of abuse should be meticulously recorded. Recording instances of abuse can be a good way for you to ensure there is enough evidence for you to take legal action against your abuser. It is worth noting, however, that if abuse becomes so serious that hospitalization is required or there is a threat to life, you or your loved one needs to leave immediately. Do not hesitate to find a safe place, then call the police. The police will be able to collect evidence from you and use it to prosecute your abuser. 

Spot the Signs of Abuse

Learning to spot the signs of abuse can be a good way to protect your loved ones. Some of the signs may include unexplained bruising, cuts, or other injuries, as well as your loved one adopting a more reserved, quiet attitude when their spouse or partner is around. You should not make any obvious inquiries about abuse until you are alone with your loved one, as if their partner catches you asking, they could inflict even more pain on them as a punishment, and may even turn on you. 

Domestic abuse is not always easy to spot. Learning about how to protect yourself and your loved ones is essential so that you know what to do in the event that domestic abuse becomes manifest. Use the guidance here to keep safe.