Your wedding is a big day, and if you and your spouse both have large families, you will likely want to include them in not only the planning but also the day itself.

For many couples, marriage may create what is known as a ‘blended family,’ bringing together children from previous relationships. Ergo, it stands to reason that they will want a job on the big day!

If that sounds familiar, read on as here, you will be given some tips on how to plan a wedding that will welcome your entire family unit.

Get Kids Involved

Maybe you and your partner don’t have kids from previous relationships but, it is possible that there will be a kid in the family that wants to be involved at the wedding venue and the reception. So, ask around if there are any nieces who want to be bridesmaids or any nephews, brothers, or cousins who want to be ring bearers or ushers.

This can make the day seem more fun, especially for younger kids, and can allow them to dress up and feel special, which always goes down well with family.

The Ceremony

Whether you are having a large church wedding or a modest one in a registry office, you will need someone to sign the book as witnesses. This may seem like no big deal but, of course, it can be a real honor if you have siblings to ask them to sign the book for you. Or, if you don’t have siblings, why not ask your parents? It could even be an ideal way to involve an out-of-town guest in the ceremony, to say thank you for them coming to the wedding.

Best Man and Maid of Honour

When it comes to weddings, these are by far the most sought-after roles for friends. However, they don’t have to be reserved for friends, and can be given to close family members, such as sisters, brothers, or even great aunts. This allows both parties to be involved in the run-up, provide wedding ideas, such as dress and suit fittings and also allows both people to have a say in the final event and the reception. If you have a younger brother who is taking part as the best man, you may want to check his speech before he gives it though!

Special Dishes

Now, there are no two ways about it. Unless you have a family member who runs a professional catering business, you shouldn’t ask them to cook all the food you will have at your wedding if there is a large guest list. Instead, why not ask guests to bring along dishes that make them think of you and your partner? Or why not ask them to bring along their own signature dish? This allows everyone with culinary skills on both sides of the family to contribute, and also reduces the cost of the catering bill! If you are looking into micro wedding venues for smaller ceremonies and receptions, this option could be used to feed everyone who attends!