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 Comprehensive Wedding Planning Checklist

Planning a wedding can feel overwhelming, but breaking down tasks by timeframes helps keep everything on track. Here’s a step-by-step checklist that covers every stage of wedding planning, from the initial steps to the big day itself.

12+ Months Before the Wedding

  • Set a Budget: Determine how much you can spend and allocate funds for each element of the wedding.
  • Choose a Wedding Date: Consider season, weather, and guest availability.
  • Create a Guest List: Start drafting a guest list for an approximate headcount.
  • Select a Venue: Book the ceremony and reception venues as soon as possible, as popular venues book up quickly.
  • Hire a Wedding Planner (Optional): If you need guidance or help coordinating, consider hiring a professional planner.
  • Choose the Wedding Party: Select bridesmaids, groomsmen, or any other attendants.

9-12 Months Before the Wedding

  • Book Key Vendors:
  • Photographer and Videographer: Find professionals with styles you love.
  • Caterer: If your venue doesn’t provide catering, hire a caterer.
  • Music: Book a DJ, band, or other entertainment.
  • Select Your Officiant: Decide who will marry you and check availability.
  • Dress Shopping: Start looking for a wedding dress and any other attire for the wedding party.
  • Save the Date Cards: If you have a date, consider sending save-the-dates, especially if you’re having a destination wedding.
  • Establish a Wedding Website: Create a website with important details about the date, location, and accommodations.

6-9 Months Before the Wedding

  • Choose Bridesmaid and Groomsmen Attire: Select styles and colors for bridesmaids and groomsmen.
  • Plan Your Honeymoon: Decide on a destination and book accommodations.
  • Send Save-the-Date Cards (if not done already): Let guests know the date so they can plan.
  • Register for Gifts: Set up a gift registry with items that fit your lifestyle.
  • Book Additional Vendors:
  • Florist: Choose a florist and decide on floral arrangements.
  • Bakery: Book a bakery for the wedding cake or dessert table.
  • Hair and Makeup: Book professionals to help you look your best.
  • Transportation: Arrange transportation for you and your wedding party if needed.

4-6 Months Before the Wedding

  • Order Invitations: Choose and order wedding invitations, RSVP cards, and other stationery.
  • Arrange Rehearsal Dinner: Decide on a location and send invitations to the rehearsal dinner.
  • Final Menu and Tasting: Schedule a tasting with your caterer and finalize the menu.
  • Plan Wedding Decor: Choose centerpieces, table settings, and other decor details.
  • Order Wedding Rings: Select and purchase wedding bands.
  • Plan for Wedding Day Attire: Consider accessories, shoes, and any alterations needed for your dress.

3-4 Months Before the Wedding

  • Mail Invitations: Send wedding invitations with RSVP instructions.
  • Buy Gifts: Purchase gifts for your wedding party and family members.
  • Write Vows (if applicable): If you’re writing personal vows, start drafting them now.
  • Finalize Music: Decide on ceremony and reception songs, and provide your DJ or band with a playlist.
  • Create a Day-Of Timeline: Coordinate with vendors to set a schedule for the wedding day.
  • Book Accommodations for Out-of-Town Guests: Reserve hotel blocks or recommend accommodations for guests.

2 Months Before the Wedding

  • Confirm Details with Vendors: Double-check all details and finalize payments.
  • Attend Dress Fittings: Go to your final dress fitting, and make sure everything is perfect.
  • Finalize Seating Chart: Start mapping out seating arrangements for guests.
  • Get Marriage License: Apply for your marriage license according to local requirements.
  • Plan Beauty Appointments: Schedule manicures, facials, or other treatments for the week of the wedding.

1 Month Before the Wedding

  • Final RSVP Count: Follow up with any guests who haven’t RSVP’d.
  • Confirm Timeline with Vendors and Wedding Party: Ensure everyone is on the same page about the schedule.
  • Prepare Place Cards and Table Numbers: Create and organize these for the reception.
  • Finalize Honeymoon Details: Confirm travel arrangements, pack, and ensure all documents are ready.
  • Organize Vendor Payments: Make any necessary payments or arrange tips for vendors.
  • Practice Your Vows: Rehearse your vows and decide if you’ll need a printed copy.

1-2 Weeks Before the Wedding

  • Attend Final Fittings: Pick up your dress or any other attire and make sure everything fits well.
  • Pack for the Wedding Day: Prepare a bag with essentials like touch-up makeup, tissues, and snacks.
  • Send the Final Guest Count to Caterer: Confirm numbers so they can prepare the right amount of food.
  • Delegate Tasks: Assign responsibilities to the wedding party, family, or friends for any day-of tasks.
  • Prepare Wedding Day Emergency Kit: Include items like safety pins, a mini sewing kit, band-aids, and pain relievers.

The Day Before the Wedding

  • Attend the Rehearsal and Rehearsal Dinner: Practice the ceremony and celebrate with close family and friends.
  • Review Timeline with Wedding Party: Go over final details and the schedule for the big day.
  • Get Plenty of Rest: Try to get a good night’s sleep to feel refreshed for your wedding.

Wedding Day

  • Eat a Healthy Breakfast: Start the day with energy.
  • Follow Your Timeline: Allow enough time for hair, makeup, and travel.
  • Enjoy the Moment: Take time to savor the experience and celebrate with your loved ones.
  • Thank Your Guests: Make an effort to greet and thank each guest personally, if possible.

After the Wedding

  • Return Rentals: Send back any rentals (tuxedos, decor, etc.) promptly.
  • Send Thank-You Notes: Write and mail thank-you notes for gifts and support.
  • Preserve Dress and Bouquet: If you plan to keep your dress or bouquet, arrange for professional preservation.

This checklist should help to guide you through the planning process step-by-step, so you can focus on enjoying every moment of your wedding journey.