We all put our trust in our partners when we get into a relationship and particularly when we get married. As a married couple it is important to trust one another but if one partner loses that trust it can make life very difficult for both parties. One of the things that can disintegrate the trust between husband and wife is if one partner thinks that the other may be cheating but does not know for sure. However, even if you cannot ask outright, there are ways and means of finding out.
If you are concerned that your husband may be cheating on you with another woman, it is only natural that you want answers. Not knowing whether or not he is cheating is often worse than knowing he is definitely cheating. With the latter, at least you can take action but if you have no idea one way or the other you just spend all of your time worrying and feeling stressed.
How can modern tools help?
Although you may not like what you discover, most women would rather do a little digging and find out the truth about their husband rather than just sit it out and hope for the best. Fortunately, there are various tools that you can use in order to find out more information. This may not give you conclusive evidence about your husband’s possible infidelity but it could help. Some of the tools to use include:
- Reverse phone number: With a reverse phone number lookup service, you can see who has been calling your husband if you are worried about calls he has been receiving. Some men start receiving more calls when they are cheating, as the person he is seeing may have little regard for whether or not you are there. You may have noticed him whispering on the phone or walking off to take his calls. If this is the case, you should definitely try out this tool to find out more about who has been calling.
- His smartphone or tablet: You may find that he has been sending messages to the women via instant messaging apps like WhatsApp or simply via text message. If you are able to get into his tablet or smartphone, you can check the instant messages and text messages to see who he has been sending and receiving texts from. This is another method that can give you an indication of whether he is cheating – in some cases it may prove conclusively that he has cheated depending on what is in the message.
- His social media accounts: Both men and women often message one another on social media accounts when they are having an affair and they naively believe that nobody else will see the messages. However, we all forget to log out of accounts such as Facebook from time to time, which means that if someone else goes on the computer and goes on Facebook our accounts come up. This is something else you can try, as you may find that he has been sending the other woman messages via this route.
If you do find out he has been cheating, you will have some very difficult decisions to make. However, it is better to know that be kept in the dark.