Surprising a loved one with a dog can be a heartfelt gesture, but it’s a big decision with long-lasting impacts on the family and the dog’s well-being.

Here are key considerations and points to help guide readers on whether they should surprise their family with a dog and some dos and don’ts if they decide to go through with it.

Puppy sleeping in someones arms.

Things To Keep In Mind

Lifestyle and Commitment

Dogs require daily exercise, attention, and care for many years. Is your loved one ready for a long-term commitment?

Factor in time, lifestyle, and routine changes that may impact the household.

Allergies and Pet Readiness

Assess whether anyone in the family has allergies to pet fur or dander—you never want to gamble with a family’s health. Getting a doodle from a reputable breeder means you’re choosing a dog with generations of genetic testing behind it, ensuring a non-shedding, hypoallergenic companion.

Make sure everyone, especially the kids, is ready for the commitment and understands the responsibilities of having a pet.

Financial Responsibility

Dogs come with ongoing costs, including food, grooming, veterinary bills, and potentially pet insurance.

Evaluate the family’s budget and readiness for these expenses.

Space and Living Arrangements

Consider the size of your living space. Larger dogs may need a yard or more room, while smaller breeds might adapt to apartments.

Take into account any rental restrictions or homeowner’s association guidelines on pets.

Breed Suitability

Some breeds are more family-friendly than others, while some are better suited to specific types of households or climates.

Research the breed that fits the recipient’s energy level and lifestyle, as well as potential training needs.

If You Should Surprise Your Family With a Dog

You Should if…

  1. The family has previously expressed an interest in getting a dog and is well-prepared for the responsibility.
  1. You’re confident that all family members are ready to embrace a pet and can contribute to its care.
  1. The breed and temperament of the dog match the family’s lifestyle and home environment.
  2. You’ve carefully considered the family’s allergies and health, ensuring they have a truly hypoallergenic dog if allergies are a concern.

You Shouldn’t if…

  1. The family is unaware of the responsibilities that come with pet ownership or may not fully commit to long-term care.
  1. The surprise may lead to stress, conflicts, or unrealistic expectations about pet ownership.
  2. You’re uncertain about any member’s willingness or capability to adjust to having a pet at home.

Dos and Don’ts of Surprising Your Family With a Dog

Do Your Research

Make sure the breed and personality of the dog align well with the family’s lifestyle, including energy levels and time available for training and bonding. Don’t simply go for the cheapest option—this dog will be with this family for the rest of its life, and investing a bit more upfront with a reputable breeder can save you from a lifetime of potential issues.

Plan an Initial Introduction

Consider working with a breeder that allows meet-and-greets. Instead of bringing the dog home immediately, allow the family to meet and interact with the dog first.

Prepare a Starter Kit

Have essentials like food, bedding, and toys ready to make the dog feel comfortable and make the transition easier for the family.

Don’t Impulse Buy

Avoid last-minute decisions to buy or adopt a dog based on breed popularity or cuteness without research into care and commitment.

Don’t Assume Everyone Will Adjust Immediately

Some family members, especially children or other pets, may need time to bond with a new dog. Be patient and avoid pushing interactions too quickly.

Don’t Forget Training Needs

Remember that young puppies need potty training and basic obedience work, while older dogs might need reinforcement in these areas.

Don’t Skip on Health Checks

Ensure the dog is fully vaccinated, spayed/neutered if needed, and healthy before bringing them into the home.

So should you surprise your family with a new puppy? It depends! Evaluating the responsibility and commitment of an animal and anticipating your loved one’s abilities whether they are in the same household or not is paramount.