Potty training is a big step for you and your child. When you are ready to make the commitment to start potty training, you will want to have the right tools and tips.
Prepare
You want to make sure that your child is ready for potty training, and is showing signs that it is a good time to start.
You also want to make sure that the timing is right for starting potty training. Don’t try to start a potty training routine when you can’t be consistent, or when your child is dealing with other big changes. For example, don’t start right when you are having another baby, during a big move, or at the same time you are transitioning out of the crib. You may also want to be aware of any big road trips or other travel, because those are often difficult times to manage potty training as well.
Be prepared with things like a good supply of pull ups, a good potty seat, waterproof bed pads, and so on.
Be patient
Potty training usually requires a fair amount of patience.Ā Don’t expect to see immediate results, and it can take some time to get to a point where your child is using the bathroom regularly, and even then, there can be regression.Ā Children are different as well, so take into account that everyone goes at their own pace.Ā
Understand that setbacks are normal
Setbacks are a normal part of the process. Be prepared to have to help your child through harder times, and that accidents can happen well underway the training process.
Motivate and reward
You never want to make your child sad or shame them if they have an accident. However, motivations, praise, and rewards are always a good part of the process. We used a lot of different approaches, from reward charts to food rewards.
Potty training is a lot of work, but stick with it!
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We are starting this month and I need all the tips! I am so nervous!
My grandson just started telling us that he needed to go pee or poo. Right now, what we need to work on is to get him out of diapers at bedtime. We will try to lessen his liquid intake before bedtime. Maybe that will help.
These are some great tips! I do not miss those days, at all. Our middle child didn’t potty train until age 4 years and like 3-4 months. It was difficult. It’s always nice to read tips that are shared to help parents with this difficult stage.
Shaming only brings about regression and immobility for a child. I am thankful we finally got through the potty training period. It was rough!